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3ccd8 №.5995

How do I make myself interesting and wantable for them? Whenever I talk to women its just uninteresting small talk, since I don't find ones with the same or similar interests as me. It almost a chore to do at this point. I don't even look bad facially, I have a good height but im a bit underweight due to crohns. I have computer interests besides gardening and I suppose music. I have never, in any sort of "relationship" been able to pass the second level (I got hugs). Do I just keep looking until I find a girl who I can talk easy with? It feels off just starting conversations with random girls in public, really never goes past a small conservation. Wat do? I havent had a girlfriend in a long time, and its affecting my mental health badly.

ONION №.5996

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>>5995
>wantable
desirable is the word you're looking for. You should try social-circle maxxing, btw.

f6f7a №.5998

>>5995
There are some good threads in the catalog and/or archive on this, Crohnsfren.
Socializing is largely just "faking it" IME. I'm introverted, but have gotten good with women and most social situations. You have to decide that whatever the person says is interesting and insist on learning more. Even if it isn't. Make the conversation about the other person, whenever possible. People love talking about themselves. Case in point, I talked about myself in response to your post

ONION №.6000

>>5998
And if you are talking about yourself, make sure it's related to whatever they just expressed. That's how you make them laugh or otherwise entertain them with stories; make it relatable.

b2f09 №.6003

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>>6000
Remember to check their digits too. Bitches love it when you check their digits.

cf695 №.6004

the impression I get is that you should just focus on making money and general self-improvement, especially physical. women are followers by nature. if you're chasing them, you're doing something wrong. once you're high-quality, you ought to have your pick so long as you're putting yourself out there

c229a №.6012

>>5995
The key to talking with women is to generally not care what they think.



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